This section is from the book "Hill's Manual Of Social And Business Forms: A Guide To Correct Writing", by Thos. E. Hill. Also available from Amazon: Hill's Manual Of Social And Business Forms: The How-To-Do-Everything Book Of Victorian America.
NOTES of invitation to a large party are usually printed and displayed in a style similar to the annexed, being always worded in the third person. If written, and among intimate friends, a more familiar style may be adopted.
Invitations should be written or printed upon a whole sheet of small note-paper, and should be issued at least a week before the time appointed for the party, so that, if necessary, a suitable dress may be obtained. For a costume ball or masquerade, two weeks is the usual time allowed for preparation.
The letters R. S. Y. P. are sometimes put at the end of a note. They stand for the French phrase, " Re-pondez s'il vous plait"- answer, if you please. It is better, however, when an answer is particularly desired, to say, "An answer will oblige."
It is courtesy to reply promptly to a note of invitation requesting an answer.
If no reply is requested, and you send no regrets, it is understood that you accept the invitation.
Send invitations, to persons in your own city or neighborhood, by your own messenger. It is regarded a violation of etiquette to send them by mail.
Mrs. Langford may write to her intimate friend. Miss Burling, as follows:
MR. & MRS. HARRINGTON. Mr. D. C. Harrington. Request the pleasure of your company, at a Lawn Soiree, Friday evening, from half-past seven to half-past ten o'clock, June 20th, 18 - , weather permitting. R. S. V. P.
Mrs. Langford requests the pleasure of Mr. and Mrs. Bell's company on Thursday evening, 7th inst., at seven o'clock. No. 7-------St., Dec. 1st.
Mr. and Mrs. Bell accept, with pleasure, Mrs. Langford's kind invitation for Thursday evening, the 7th inst. No. 8-------St., Dec. 2d.
Mr. and Mrs. Bell regret their inability to accept Mrs. Langford's kind invitation for Thursday evening, the 7th inst. No. 8-------St., Dec. 2d.
Mr. Conklin presents his warm regards to Mr. Belden, and requests the pleasure of his company to dinner, on Thursday next (18th) at 5 o'clock. Mr. Conklin expects the pleasure, also, of receiving Mr. Wilbur, of Buffalo.
An answer will oblige.
No. 44-------St., June 16, 18 - .
Mr. Belden presents his kind regards to Mr. Conklin, and accepts, with pleasure, his polite invitation for Thursday next.
No. 17-------St., June 17, 18 - .
Mr. Belden regrets that a previously arranged business engagement will prevent his accepting Mr. Conklin's kind invitation for to-morrow. Mr. Belden has delayed answering until to-day, hoping to effect a change of appointment, but has learned this forenoon that no change can be made without serious disappointment to others.
No. 17-------St., June 17, 18 - .
 
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